Thursday, May 14, 2020

NR-NP

The Bull Shit T-Shirt
Often seen, whether in petty cafés or expensive T-Shirts, this is a sign that I really hate. Had there been a sign that said No Murders, people would have said "Why not? After all they do happen. We'd like to discuss them, too." People are still discussing PM Liaquat Ali Khan's murder and new evidence keeps coming out.

I agree. In fact even a "No Shit Talk, Please" would also be stupid. Shit (Talks or real Shit) happens all the time. So we should be able to talk about it.

Religion and Politics? YES. They happen. Most times much more than the above examples.
Except that in the second part I do have to make a comment on real shit. It does happen more often if there is a Dastāngoi (not Dāstāngoi, Fawad!) going on … but that is rare.
So why should we not talk about these two things that people have different views about. Or share similar views. Or want to understand the opposite ideas and discuss them?

Some people say that it could lead to Violence.
Hmmm. Really?

Think of Sports. Football, for example. Happy crowds, shouting and jumping at every goal and the goalkeepers triumphs. Then read this.
May 24, 1964 - Estadio Nacional disaster - 328 died and 500 injured during match between Argentina and Peru when referee disallowed a goal scored at last minute which ignited crowd protest. Police fired tear gas into the crowd, causing a panic and a rush for the exits at National Stadium. 
The other day I saw in the paper that two friends finished their friendly tea at a chai-khāna. The waiter arrived and each of them wanted to pay. One got really upset in the argument and finally killed the other with a knife. No Chai at Chai Khānas, then …

And it's just not us this side of the world that's plain crazy. As I said, it happens everywhere. Even in USA (where things can get worse, really).


My own interest in Politics (apart from some family connections) is very little. I am more interested in what probably affects humanity at large, whether it's Sapiens or Covid-19 (Please check these links). There is an occasional look at local news every few days. They all seem the same these days, anyway.

However, Religion plays an important part for me. I read a lot about it as all religions seem equally important. After all to understand what happened we need to know who the gods were at different periods of history. What were Myths? Was there any truth? What about monotheistic religions (including Zoroaster's ideas)? What about the differences between them? What about the old and some still existing religious beliefs in parts of Africa or among the American Indians? What about Bishop Spong's views. What about our own sectarian differences? And can Science and Religion work together? This is all so fascinating. 

I also need to understand when reading Literature what certain names mean. It is important to know that who was Achilles, Samson, Zeus, Hercules, Rama and Ganesh. Was Mary Magdalene the person that the Church told us about (or was she married to Jesus Christ). Who was Lilith, considered by a small few to be Adam's first wife. This is supported indirectly by Genesis 1:27 and Genesis 2:15-25. These people believe that it says Adam had two wives.


Why did I write this piece at all?

Well a friend's group on What's App (which I had started) became insistent that there'd be 'No Religion' on our links coz some get offended by it as there are people of all sects. Obviously there was no such law, but many started supporting it. The fact that on every few days (and increasing in intensity) they'd  have religious posts that they loved. This did not say 'No Religion' to them.

On one day a dear friend of mine said something and another dear friend got offended. I thought this was shitty beyond belief. They have both been close friends since 1957, and there wasn't even enough 'tolerance' (to say the least) for it to be forgotten … so I left the group and am happy that I can correspond with each of them separately.

Cheers!



Sunday, April 12, 2020

BeanZ Meanderings 2006

Sab playing Tabla at T2F

This post took me longer than I thought. Looking for 2 pictures took very long but we found them. Looking for a comment that I had copied somewhere, but forgotten where, took even longer. Got that too … eventually. 

What also took long was my reading the blog again and again … and specially the movie piece which brought back memories when Sabeen (occasionally with Mimi) would come to our house to watch films that I had kept aside to watch often (yes, I do watch some movies many times). And the Hair piece: a film that Sabeen and I had watched many times together. I had always told her to watch it live (I had done that when it first came out on stage in London) … and was so thrilled when she could see it.





Friday, April 3, 2020

BeanZ Meanderings 2005

My Favourite Mac Lover
This session took me the longest time. Partly because she wrote a lot this time. Partly because I loved her writings and read the pieces s l o w l y again and again. Partly because finding the Article below took time and woke me up in the middle of the night to look for it where I thought it might be.

These are BeanZ 2005 Blogposts

Good luck reading these.
Enjoy her sarcasm, humour,
and wonderfully amazing feelings
about so much that was
happening those days.

This is the South African Rapex Controversy Piece
(This is the way I received it in my email.)


Thursday, March 26, 2020

'Meanderings'



Sabeen Mahmud started her Blog, titled Meanderings, in March 2003 and continued with it until September 2007 when she became far too busy with many more things.

After her death the Website where it was, was also removed and we lost all o f the items that she had written.

We did want all of them back, not just because she was no longer with us (though that was an important part) but because we wanted to read a lot of her things again.

Putting the Blog together helped us re-read some posts that we adored … but it also showed us how she and her opinions remained over those 5 years.

 Fortunately we now have all those Blog Posts back (but the comments by others under the posts have disappeared).

I shall be presenting each year in a separate blogpost here so you'll see 2003 tomorrow and the rest as soon as I put them together.

This is just to let all of you who knew her know that there's going to be much that you'll enjoy reading.

For those of you who got to know of her after her assassination and are now as fond of her as we were, you'll love seeing these posts.

For the ones who got to know her (or are getting to know her) by their frequent trips to T2F, where she is mentioned every now and then, they will get to know her through her posts.

For the many not in Karachi - wether they are in Pakistan or abroad - this will also be a way for them to see Sabeen again in her own words.

Enjoy.


Sab, we love you more than you can even understand …

Tuesday, November 12, 2019

Süno, Sabeen …

Kia hüvā?
Ragni Marea Kidvai
became a mother on the
6th of November 2019
at 12:47am


We were with her in Brooklyn at that time
and could only visit her the day after
(Bloody USA Rules!)

No name was given then
but this is what was decided
by Ragni as an announcement.

Weight: 6lb 9oz
Height: 20"

He was nicknamed after you



Look at his toes



On the 10th November his full name was announced.

MEKA-ELIJAH KIDVAI-WILLIAMS

Meka is short for Milkail

It also has several other meanings:
Hawaiian: Eyes
Chinese: Beautiful Eyes

In some European languages it means
A Gift from God
In USA it can mean Awesome

Elijah has a Jewish meaning that says
I believe in Yahweh

Elijah aka Elyahu was a Biblical Prophet
but his name was also chosen
as a Tribute
to Elijah Cummings
who passed away recently.

The surname is a combination
Ragni's surname KIDVAI
Alisha's surname WILLIAMS






So there you are … all up to date



We all miss you so much, Sab!