Monday, May 25, 2020

What's in a name? Plenty, I think.

Let's start with Urdu and my First Name

The number of times my first name, Zaheer, has been written as ظہیر instead of زہیر - which is my actual name - is not so strange. Zoé is pronounced the same as Zay in Urdu. Of course, in Arabic Zay is Zay, but Zoé is Doé … Think of Eed-ul-Ad'ha, folks.

When I was at sea and ever travelled to an Arab speaking country and was asked for my name at the gate for a Pass, I said Zaheer and they always wrote زہیر ...
My father's name was Azhar (ازہر) and was written by many as اظہر for the same reason as mine was. Haven't you heard of Jaméul Azhar (جامع الازہر)?
Azhar and Zaheer with a Zoé comes from Zāhir (= obvious or seen) ... Remember اظہر من ال شمس?
Azhar and Zaheer with a Zay comes from a word meaning Light (روشنی)! Zahrā, the planet (زہرا) means the lighted one.

Azhar means the one receiving the light.
Zaheer means the one giving the light.


Now to the English version of my Surname

Kidvai comes from a Turkish word and is derived as being the progeny of Kazi Kidva, a scholar and a judge who came to India with the Mughal king Babar.

Originally, of course, the names were written in the Arabic/Persian script, but Mustafa Kemal changed that and wanted the language to be written in the Latin Script (perhaps partly because it was easier to 'type' and partly because of his love for the West. I am not sure). 
This has led to many problems for a language that has to be written differently: many written pieces, prose and poems, will never get translated. Who has the time to do all this, after all. Imagine if we had to change Urdu into an English Script: Mir, Ghalib, Faiz and others of that ilk would get translated. Even many religious works would get translated. But what about the lesser writers and poets, who may have occasionally written a lovely piece? Will those ever be translated? Not at all.
As you notice, there's no Q (ق) but a K (Koran for قران is something many of you must have seen). Of course we even have Kasuri for قصوری but I don't know whether there's a Turkish connection or not.
Also the word W (و) has no mention. There is only a V. This is why we write Kidvai,

Many others write Qidwai, Quidwai, Kidwai, and even a Bengali friend who wrote Kidbhaee because he followed Pir whose surname was قدوایٗ. He translated that into Bengali and was then told by a Calcuttay-vāla that bh was not correct and he should use a w. 

Those who saw an Arabic version of the letters saw ق & و and used that. Those who felt that a Q cannot be by itself and must have a U after it, used that. And many Indians remember their Minster Rafi Ahmed Kidwai and automatically use that when writing my name and emailing me (when my email spells KIDVAI with a V). Some emails, I am sure, get lost in this process. Others have my email right and get to me :)


Two funny tales:

1. When I was at sea and went to East Africa, I visited a Sindhi Doctor to check my health and gave him my name and home address. He wrote it down as Kidvani and thought I was a Sindhi, too. For years I kept getting letters from him about how Sindhis in Pakistan and India ought to get together and form a separate Sindhu Desh. After several letters I did write back and tell him I was a New Sindhi … and never got any mail after that. One of the top members from that group was Mumtaz Bhutto, a cousin of ZAB, who was also our Shipping Minister.

2. I once went to get a Notary Public Paper for myself and for my wife, Nuzhat. When the old Lucknowi man, with a tirchhi topi and a white kürta pyjāma asked me for my name I said Zaheer … with a Zay, please. He looked at me and then smiled and wrote it right. When he asked for my father's name I said Azhar … with a Zay, please. He smiled again and wrote that down right. Then he asked me my wife's name and I said Nuzhat. He looked up and said Shall I write this with a Zoād? 


While I was in UK during my seafaring days I discovered this on a catalogue I was looking at and ordered it. It arrived and now hangs in my house. 


The Latin Script reads
Non Omnis Moriar
which means
I shall not altogether die


I was told that it was placed in the catalogue by
Mubashir Husain Kidwai
I am surprised that it reads Kidvai at the top
but he continued to write Kidwai with a w.

But that's up to him, I guess.


Sunday, May 24, 2020

Beans Meanderings 2007 (Jan)

Sab's Contagious Laughter

I decided to post the January month separately. It was an important month for Sab who was visiting Apple to join in the First iPhone Launch session at Moscone Center in SF.



Thursday, May 14, 2020

NR-NP

The Bull Shit T-Shirt
Often seen, whether in petty cafés or expensive T-Shirts, this is a sign that I really hate. Had there been a sign that said No Murders, people would have said "Why not? After all they do happen. We'd like to discuss them, too." People are still discussing PM Liaquat Ali Khan's murder and new evidence keeps coming out.

I agree. In fact even a "No Shit Talk, Please" would also be stupid. Shit (Talks or real Shit) happens all the time. So we should be able to talk about it.

Religion and Politics? YES. They happen. Most times much more than the above examples.
Except that in the second part I do have to make a comment on real shit. It does happen more often if there is a Dastāngoi (not Dāstāngoi, Fawad!) going on … but that is rare.
So why should we not talk about these two things that people have different views about. Or share similar views. Or want to understand the opposite ideas and discuss them?

Some people say that it could lead to Violence.
Hmmm. Really?

Think of Sports. Football, for example. Happy crowds, shouting and jumping at every goal and the goalkeepers triumphs. Then read this.
May 24, 1964 - Estadio Nacional disaster - 328 died and 500 injured during match between Argentina and Peru when referee disallowed a goal scored at last minute which ignited crowd protest. Police fired tear gas into the crowd, causing a panic and a rush for the exits at National Stadium. 
The other day I saw in the paper that two friends finished their friendly tea at a chai-khāna. The waiter arrived and each of them wanted to pay. One got really upset in the argument and finally killed the other with a knife. No Chai at Chai Khānas, then …

And it's just not us this side of the world that's plain crazy. As I said, it happens everywhere. Even in USA (where things can get worse, really).


My own interest in Politics (apart from some family connections) is very little. I am more interested in what probably affects humanity at large, whether it's Sapiens or Covid-19 (Please check these links). There is an occasional look at local news every few days. They all seem the same these days, anyway.

However, Religion plays an important part for me. I read a lot about it as all religions seem equally important. After all to understand what happened we need to know who the gods were at different periods of history. What were Myths? Was there any truth? What about monotheistic religions (including Zoroaster's ideas)? What about the differences between them? What about the old and some still existing religious beliefs in parts of Africa or among the American Indians? What about Bishop Spong's views. What about our own sectarian differences? And can Science and Religion work together? This is all so fascinating. 

I also need to understand when reading Literature what certain names mean. It is important to know that who was Achilles, Samson, Zeus, Hercules, Rama and Ganesh. Was Mary Magdalene the person that the Church told us about (or was she married to Jesus Christ). Who was Lilith, considered by a small few to be Adam's first wife. This is supported indirectly by Genesis 1:27 and Genesis 2:15-25. These people believe that it says Adam had two wives.


Why did I write this piece at all?

Well a friend's group on What's App (which I had started) became insistent that there'd be 'No Religion' on our links coz some get offended by it as there are people of all sects. Obviously there was no such law, but many started supporting it. The fact that on every few days (and increasing in intensity) they'd  have religious posts that they loved. This did not say 'No Religion' to them.

On one day a dear friend of mine said something and another dear friend got offended. I thought this was shitty beyond belief. They have both been close friends since 1957, and there wasn't even enough 'tolerance' (to say the least) for it to be forgotten … so I left the group and am happy that I can correspond with each of them separately.

Cheers!